why teenage girls are disproportionately affected by school avoidance
the morning I stopped saying "you have to go"
There was a particular version of mornings that I got very good at. I had a script for it and everything — the gentle knock, the chirpy opener, the escalation. You have to go. You have to go. I got very efficient at it. What I couldn't see, from inside that sequence, was that I was running it entirely on the wrong assumption.
"school refusal" vs. “school avoidance”: why the words matter
if you're in the middle of it — the slow mornings, the sunday evenings, the conversations with the school that don't go the way you needed them to —
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